The musical Legally Blonde got me through rabbinical school. You may find that surprising, but it is true. One of the musical numbers says, “Love, I’m doing it for love. And love will see me through. With love you can’t lose.”

Today’s Torah portion includes some of the most known commandments. We read the Sh’ma and V’ahavta and the 10 Commandments. Wow! As part of Moses’s farewell address, he wants to make sure the Israelites get the core of Judaism. That even we today get it. This is Moses at his leadership best.

It also is 50 years since Woodstock. Perhaps some of you were there. Many claim to have been. I only know one for sure who was. Peace, love and rock and roll. Revolutionary, no? An example of leadership. Maybe yes and maybe no.

Yesterday was Tu B’av.

Tu B’av is a little holiday mentioned in the Talmud, a joyous day after the tragic day of Tisha B’av marking the beginning of the grape harvest. The unmarried girls of Jerusalem dressed in white, would go out to the vineyards to dance. (Ta’anit 30b-31a) It has become something like a modern day Israeli Valentines Day or Sadie Hawkins day. I can imagine them out in the fields singing Dodi Li:

Dodi li va-ani lo, ha-roeh
Bashoshanium dodi li

I am my beloved and my beloved is mine.

Or perhaps, in fitting with the Woodstock theme:
“Where have all the flowers gone…long time passing…gone to young girls passing…”

Or perhaps “Kisses Sweeter than Wine”…the chorus of which also comes from Song of Songs…Oh Lord, sweeter than wine.

According to the Talmud, no holiday was a joyous as Tu B’av and Yom Kippur. Yes that’s right, Tu B’av and Yom Kippur, perhaps like Woodstock, helped along a little with that grape harvest and some free love. This was also the day that the wood-offering was brought and Josephus referred to it at the Feast of Xylophory Wood bearing.

Wood offering, wood bearing, Woodstock. This pilgrimage anniversary to a dairy farm in rural New York all starts to make sense. Love…I’m doing it for love.

This morning, therefore I want to talk about love. The portion tells us, V’ahavta. You shall love the Lord your G-d. B’chol levacha, with all your heart and intellect, b’chol nafesha, with all your spirit and soul, b’chol me’odecha, with all your everything, with the most you you can muster.

What does it mean to love? (One woman answered something you cherish)

The psychologists will tell you that you can’t legislate a feeling. So how can the Torah, or G-d command us to love? Rabbi Jack Abramowitz suggests that we flip it around. Many people will say they hate Hitler. Why? Even though we have never met him, we are familiar with his evilness, his genocidal leadership. On the other hand, how can we be commanded to love G-d? This requires getting to know G-d and G-d’s actions first. Once we do, we will then love G-d.. https://www.ou.org/torah/mitzvot/taryag/mitzvah418/

It is like the Torah portion itself. After repeating the 10 Commandments, the people are reported to say “we will hear and we will do.” The classic version is “We will do and we will hear.”

This is probably why the rabbis of the Talmud set the order of the Siddur just as we have it today. There is a Sh’ma sandwich. We start with Ahavat Olam or Ahava Rabbah praising G-d for loving us and giving us Torah, like parents love their children by giving them rules and limits. Then we proclaim the Sh’ma, the watchword of our faith, this revolutionary idea that G-d is one and only one and then that is followed by the V’ahavta, the commandment to love. Once you know G-d loves us and that G-d is one, you can’t help but love G-d. Stew Levin says this is the ultimate love song.

It’s a little like the Bob Marley song, “One love, one heart. Let’s get together and feel alright.” Sing it with me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdB-8eLEW8g

Perhaps more relevant today that we even realized.

But what if you don’t. Last week we had a very rich discussion at Kiddush about whether G-d is a G-d of vengeance. Some of the Hebrew Bible stories of war and destruction seem at best harsh. How can we love a G-d that does these things? We talked at length about a book I recommend, G-d, a Biography which traces the development of G-d as a literary character.

Part of that question is to attempt to answer the age-old question why do bad things happen to good people. That’s a good question. Even better is when bad things happen to good people. Bad things will happen. The question becomes how do we respond when they do.

The V’ahavta prayer gives us the how to love G-d. It is a love that is active, engaging and full of commitment. Otherwise, promising to love G-d is just an empty promise, G-d tells us how to show our love by telling us, commanding us exactly HOW to love G-d. How to demonstrate it. You might call it a great honey do list.

Teach these very words to your children.
Speak of them in your homes and on your way.
When you lie down and when you rise up. Basically all the time.

Don’t forget these words, these very words. Keep them very close at hand. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. Put them between your eyes.

Rabbi Scott Hausman Weiss said it well:

• Be someone whose actions teach your children of goodness and greatness by way of your deeds more than your words.
• Be someone whose family would affirm that you are as decent at home, as your colleagues think you are at work. And, vice versa.
• Be someone whose life could be worthy of being chanted, like words of Torah. (Just like we are about to do)

http://jhvonline.com/vahavta-love-is-just-the-beginning-p15438-290.htm

This is revolutionary too.

Then the V’ahavta gives us the answer to another question. Why? Why does this matter? Why should we bother? And G-d reminds us that we were slaves in the land of Egypt. And G-d remembered us and took note of us and took us out. That showed G-d’s love of us.

There is another use of the word V’ahavta in the Torah. V’ahavta l’reyacha kamocha. Love your neighbor as yourself. (Leviticus 19:18) Both Hillel and Jesus taught that this was really the central teaching of the Torah. If we could study this verse and master it, all the rest of the Torah is commentary. It too is rooted in remembering that we were slaves in Egypt and that G-d took us out with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm.

Not only are we commanded to love G-d and love our neighbor as ourselves but to love the stranger. “Love the stranger, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt”. There the word is V’ahavtem, in the plural you form. But that is next week’s Torah portion.

It is simple, no? On this weekend of Woodstock, of free love, we are told, commanded, Love G-d, Love your neighbor. Love the stranger. It’s what the Bible tells us to do. It’s revolutionary. Peace, love and rock and roll.

.And the old shall dream dreams, and the youth shall see visions,
And our hopes shall rise up to the sky.
We must live for today; we must build for tomorrow.
Give us time, give us strength, give us life.
Debbie Friedman based on Joel 2:28 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wahrvf_uAYc

Let the peace of Oseh Shalom settle over you. Dan did a great job of leading it this morning. Today’s sermon feels decidedly unfinished. And it is guaranteed to make none of you happy.

Today is Shabbat Hazon, the Shabbat of Vision, the Shabbat just before Tisha B’av, which we observe tomorrow because in fact today is Shabbat and we don’t mourn on Shabbat.

We’ve spent several weeks talking about prophecy and call. Today I want to talk about vision and Isaiah.

At CKI we have a vision statement that was developed by the vision committee and adopted by the entire congregation, almost 10 years ago. That statement says that we are a Jewish congregation dedicated to lifelong learning, meaningful observance, building community and embracing diversity.

What does vision mean to you? People answered that it was more than sight. It had to do with seeing into the future with hope and aspiration. It is what we can and should become.

Vision means at its basic level sight. The second definition according to Merriam Webster is “something seen in a dream, trance, or ecstasy especially : a supernatural appearance that conveys a revelation, b: a thought, concept, or object formed by the imagination, c: a manifestation to the senses of something immaterial”

For the prophets it meant something more. It meant the ability to offer hope for the future while looking at the past.

Today we begin to read the book of Deuteronomy. The entire book can be seen as Moses’ farewell address, where he reminds people of the covenant and repeats the 10 commandments. It is beautiful Hebrew. It gives us the Sh’ma and the V’ahavta and promises us a good land, one flowing with milk and honey. And it assures us that even though Moses is not going with us, somehow we will be alright. It transitions the leadership to Joshua and then it tells us never again would there arise a navi, a prophet like Moses who knew G-d face to face.

Today we also read about another prophet, Isaiah. Isaiah too had a vision. We know part of Isaiah’s vision, “Every one ‘neath their vine and fig tree, shall live in peace and unafraid. And into plow share beat their swords, nation shall learn war no more.”

George Washington quoted this very verse to the members of the Hebrew Congregation in Newport RI. It is part of the Isaiah Wall at UN Headquarters, designed by Ralph Bunche, the first African American to win a Nobel peace prize in 1950. It is the basis for Yehudai Amichai’s poem:

An Appendix to the Vision of Peace
Tosefet Lachazon Hashalom
Don’t stop after beating the swords
into plowshares, don’t stop! Go on beating
and make musical instruments out of them.
Whoever wants to make war again
will have to turn them into plowshares first.
– Yehuda Amichai

What is your vision of sitting under your vine and fig tree? There was actual silence. Unusual in my place. Then one brave woman said, “It is hard to even imagine these days. I’m scared. All the time.” Chilling.

I was fortunate. I lived it out last night, sitting on my new deck, watching the sunset while some ducks swam and sipping a glass of Shabbat wine.

This was a hard week. This was not a week of Isaiah’s vision. Far from it. Since we gathered last we learned of the horrors of El Paso, of Dayton, of Chicago, where last weekend alone 7 were killed and 46 were wounded. This was a week that saw Elgin’s first shooting, a homicide, in over a year, that began over a dispute. A senseless dispute.

This was a week where I spent more hours as a trusted advisor to the city in my role as rabbi and chaplain watching the police shooting video from last year. And then more conversations about it with more to come next week.

And I have homework. To read a book written by Dave Grossman, On Killing, The Psychological Cost of Learning to Kill in War and Society. I’ll be honest. I’m not looking forward to it, but when the deputy police chief recommends it, you listen. This week we also lost (lost is never the right word here. He was murdered.) a young man, a 19 year old stabbing victim clutching a different Dave Grossman book as he died. He was bringing it to his rabbi to discuss peace on the West Bank.

This is what I know. I am angry. Outraged. Scared. I know we have to do something. Because doing nothing is no longer an option.

This is what I didn’t know. Knives are actually more dangerous than guns. They are more “personal” but guns can kill more people more quickly. I didn’t know that bulletproof vests don’t stop knives. I should have but I didn’t. I didn’t know that the ambulance had been called but was being held by the state police back where 90 was closed until the scene was “secure”. I didn’t know that the officers had seen two knives. I didn’t know she had slit her throat and her wrists. I didn’t know until this week that she did have two feet on the ground, pointed toward the officers not away from them. That she died clutching both knives.

This is what I know. These events are never as clear as they may at first appear. They are very, very nuanced. Causing us to ask again, what is vision? How do you know even what you have seen? For months I had said I couldn’t see the second knife. Now I can. And had I been there would I have seen it sitting on the seat? Would I have wondered if there was also a gun? Would I have worried about that car on fire would blow up?

That burning car with its fuel tank changed everything.

This is not me doing apologetics for the EPD. This police shooting fits a national pattern. Sadly. A national problem. This is me having spent hours, too many to count, watching, and listening and asking really hard questions. Is the lieutenant a racist? Or exhibiting implicit bias? Would waiting another second, two, three, four make a difference. Would more mental health training and not screaming at her produced a different outcome? What is the difference in verb choice between charge, stumble, fell out, exited the vehicle? What do you see?

And I am coming to a possible new conclusion. This is me thinking about our tradition of teshuvah and forgiveness and healing. We believe in yeshivah, that the gates of repentance are always open. I am uncomfortable when someone stands up at a meeting and states that the city can never heal. As painful as it is, the city has to heal. Somehow. At some point.

And I don’t know. I don’t know what the answers are.

What I do know: events like National Night Out and Soccer for Peace work. They decrease the violence. That guns kill. That this, too, is a national problem. That too many black and brown people die. That too many people devalue human life and turn into killers. That we have too much easy access to guns. That the desire (?) to kill cannot be attributed to one factor. It is too easy to say it is violent video games, or mental illness.

On a special on the Today Show a psychiatrist said that hostility, anger, bigotry, craving infamy, blaming others for the their problems and easy access to weapons are some of the causes. I would add a history of domestic violence. We as a community also need to concerned with the documented rising anti-semitism. Yet that fits in the category of bigotry.

https://www.today.com/video/is-there-a-link-between-gun-violence-and-video-games-65829445509

She cautions however, while we maybe feeling anxious, “We cannot let these examples of mass violence steal our joy.”

This is what I know too. In Isaiah’s vision in today’s portion, he says:

“Your rulers are rogues and cronies of thieves, Every one avid for presents and greedy for gifts; They do not judge the case of the orphan, And the widow’s cause never reaches them (Isaiah 1:24).”

Some say the definition of insanity is to keep repeating the same thing. We can no longer afford to do that. Thoughts and prayers are not enough. They ring hollow. Even from this rabbi. Especially from this rabbi.

I have been too close to too many of these shooting for too long. I too am a victim of a violent crime that involved guns, legally issued guns by the Israeli army. Because of that I have spent decades working on this very issue. And then…my sister-in-law was the district director for Gabby Giffords’ predecessor. That is their grocery store. My other sister-in-law was at that very mall to get her nails done that morning. They knew everyone shot. And then…my college roommates kid was a 6 year old in Newtown, CT that fateful day. He was not harmed but he lost friends that day. And then…a friend of mine from Israel, who made aliyah because of Columbine, moved back to the Denver area because it would be safer, only to have a daughter at the movie theater the night of that shooting. And just last year, one of my students from Chelmsford, was wounded in Parkland. This insanity has to stop. Isaiah’s vision includes being able to go to school, to the movies, to the grocery and yes, here to synagogue without fear.

We have spent lots of time thinking about safety and security here at CKI. There are no perfect answers. There will be police for the High Holidays. We are continuing to beef up other options. The reality is that hiring the police costs $213 every single time. That is not a sustainable model, even if we do get the homeland security grant. While having an officer maybe a deterrent to some, it does not stop someone hell-bent on committing these kinds of mass murders, as we sadly learned from Gilroy and Dayton.

Our own rulers seem unable to recognize that what we are doing as a nation isn’t working. I am not talking about dismantling the Second Amendment. I am talking about it being more difficult to obtain guns, high powered assault rifles with large magazines, designed as instruments of war, only to kill people. That’s why I have been proud to support Rabbi Joel Mosbacher’s organization, Don’t Stand Idly By, which advocates for Smart Gun Technology. His own father was killed by a gun in a robbery in Chicago. The mayor of Elgin and the former police chief have both signed on.

This is what I still don’t know. I don’t know how get people to understand one of the central messages of Deuteronomy. “I have set before you blessing and curse. Choose life that you may live.” Let us all choose life that we may live.

Reading before Kaddish
The words that the rabbi in Dayton used, words of my good friend Alden Solovy, professor of liturgy at Hebrew Union College:

After a Deadly Rampage
Author of life
Source and Creator,
Grant a perfect rest under Your tabernacle of peace
To the victims of the massacre
In _________________________ [add place of the event],
Whose lives were cut off by violence,
A rampage of witless aggression beyond understanding.
Their hopes were severed.
Their dreams were lost to brutality.
May their souls be bound up in the bond of life,
A living blessing in our midst.
May they rest in peace.

G-d of justice and mercy,
Remember, too, the survivors of this attack,
Witnesses of shock, horror and dismay.
Ease their suffering and release their trauma
So that they recover lives of joy and wonder.
Grant them Your shelter and solace,
Blessing and renewal.
Grant them endurance to survive,
Strength to rebuild,
Faith to mourn,
And courage to heal.

Remember the families and friends
Of the dead and the wounded.
With comfort and consolation.
Grant them Your protection,
Your wholeness and healing.
May they find hope and renewal.

Heavenly Guide,
Source of love and shelter,
Put an end to anger, hatred and fear
And lead us to a time when
No one will suffer at the hand of another,
Speedily, in our day.© 2012 Alden Solovy and tobendlight.com. All rights reserved.

What a lovely tradition this is. Thank you for including me and welcoming me. And thank you for bringing us the idea of co-sponsoring the event last month on Rabbi Evan Moffic’s book, First the Jews. This kind of join programming is important. I think it actually saves lives. And make no mistake, the friendship that has developed between Father Don and I, between Don and David and Simon and I has helped to save lives. He told you about my showing up at the hospital. But who do you think showed up the first morning of chemo for my husband, with a Saint James prayer blanket?! And who do you think would drive him home if I had to work?

This program in particular reminds me of the early days of the kibbutzim, where young halutzim really understood the connection to the land. The land is important. It is an honor to be here today, to share this message. You see, my father, when he was a medical school professor at Northwestern, was part of the first national Earth Day in 1970. We referred to our home in Evanston as Dandelion Acres. Because even back then we were “organic,” we weren’t using those harsh chemicals that might destroy the environment.

Look around you. This is beautiful. Be quiet and hear the birds. Marvel at the notion that at 6 AM it was pouring, then there was a rainbow and now this. Enjoy the breeze. Wind, and spirit are both ruach in Hebrew. Wind is the very breath of G-d.

From the beginning of the Bible, the Torah, as you have just read, G-d created the world and saw that it was good and as Bishop Tutu said, smiled. And the Ruach Elohim, the spirit of G-d, merachefet, fluttered over the water.

This is very good, man woman and child. All are good.

Rabbi Chaim Stern edited the Reform Movement Gates of Prayer and included his prayer that became a song:

When G-d made the world, G-d made it full of light.
The sun to shine by day
The moon and stars by night
G-d made it full of life
Lilies oak and trout
Tigers and bears, sparrows, hawks
And apes. (laughter, as anticipated)

And God took clay from earth’s four corners to give it the breath of life,
And God said:
This is very good. This is very good. This is very, very good.
Man , women, and child: all are good.
Man woman and child resemble god.

Like God, we love, like God we think, like God we care.
Man, woman and child all are good.

Just as the song and the Bible itself suggests, each of us is created, b’tzelem elohim, in the image of G-d. And each of us has an obligation to be a partner with G-d in the works of a creation. As co-creators, caretakers, partners.

This is a covenantal relationship. A covenant is a promise. It can be a legal contract or a treaty. If you do x I will do y. This past year, Congregation Kneseth Israel spent the year looking at covenant. There are 346 mentions of covenant in the Bible, (don’t worry, we are not going to do all of them!) 270 mentions in the Hebrew Scriptures alone. There are several different covenants in the Bible:

The covenant of creation, which we are enjoying right here, right now today, out here in this beautiful setting, of the Garden of Eden where G-d commands Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply and while they have dominion over the earth, they need to be caretakers of the earth and G-d’s partner in creation.

The covenant with Abraham, and of Moses, where circumcision and Shabbat are the signs of the covenant.

Perhaps most relevant to us today is the covenant with Noah. where G-d promises never to destroy the world again by flood. The sign of that covenant is the rainbow which some of us were treated to early this morning. There is a Jewish blessing for a rainbow. Baruch Atah Adonai, Eloheinu Melech Ha’olam, zochair habrit. Blessed are You, Lord our G-d, who remembers the covenant.

That promise that G-d makes to never destroy the world again. Listen carefully. Never again through water.

“And I will remember My covenant, which is between Me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and never again shall the water become a flood to destroy all flesh.” (Gen. 9:15)

The words of the Gospel spiritual says. Anyone know it? I promised not to try to sing this one. Perhaps if I had been totally on my game, Luke could have amplified the Youtube clip. I’ll send Father Don the link.

It’s gonna rain (2x),
you better get ready and bear this in mind.
God showed Noah by the rainbow sign,
no more water, but fire next time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6GdL8i6QQAQ

But fire next time. It is happening now. July was the hottest July on record. This is an indisputable fact. https://www.noaa.gov/news/july-2019-was-hottest-month-on-record-for-planet?fbclid=IwAR1t-OiI7ZP5TPLWoKn6U2a61-swJY1aZFDX6CUmoFRb86-SZ6oTezQcgas

Today is Tisha B’av. A Jewish fast day commemorating the destruction of the two Holy Temples in Jerusalem. Anything bad that happened to the Jews happened on Tisha B’av. The first set of tablets of the 10 commandments were smashed. The two temples destroyed, the expulsion of the Jews from England and then later from Spain. That was in 1492 and that is a different story for another time but very relevant to those of us who live in the Elgin area.

Since the 1970s, Jewish rabbis have been talking about Tisha B’av with its fires of destruction as a way to talk about two much more recent issues. The bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. And the issue of scorched earth policy.

This earth, this very earth that we are standing on today, is our Holy Temple. If we destroy it by fire, we will have nothing. If we destroy it with our dependence on fossil fuels and we destroy the ozone layer, the very thing my father was worried about back in the 70s, we will have nothing. If we destroy it by refusing to listen to the prophet/scientists warning on climate change, we will have nothing.

We are the generation that stands
between the fires:
Behind us the flame and smoke
that rose from Auschwitz and from Hiroshima
And from the burning of the Amazon forest;
Before us the nightmare of a Flood of Fire,
The flame and smoke that could consume all earth.

It is our task to make from fire not an all-consuming blaze
But the light in which we see each other fully.
All of us different, All of us bearing
One Spark.

We light these fires to see more clearly
That the earth and all who live as part of it
Are not for burning.
We light these fires to see more clearly
The rainbow in our many-colored faces.
Blessed is the One within the many.
Blessed are the many who make One.

Here! I will send you
Elijah the Prophet
Before the coming
of the great and terrible day
of YAHH, the Breath of Life.
And he shall turn the heart
Of parents to children
And the heart of children to their parents.
Lest I come and
Smite the earth
With utter destruction.
(From Malachi 3)

Here! we ourselves are coming
Before the great and terrible day
of smiting Earth —
For we shall turn the hearts
Of parents to children
And the hearts of children to their parents
So that this day of smiting
Does not fall upon us.

Rabbi Arthur Waskow

https://theshalomcenter.org/content/flaming-fire-consuming-everything-tisha-bav-time-climate-crisis

Yesterday, Jews around the world began reading the book of Deuteronomy. Later in the  book, we are told Tzedek, tzedek tirdof, justice, justice shall you pursue. It is not just something we can wait for in our pews and our homes. It is something we have to run after and work for. It is something we have to actively seek out. It is said that there are no extra words in the Torah, so why then does the word justice repeat. For emphasis, surely. But that extra word also reminds us that we need to seek out justice, here in our own communities, and out there in communities further away.

Later in that very reading, we are given the rules for waging war. It was my daughter’s Bat Mitzvah portion. It tells us to bal taschit, don’t destroy. Specifically don’t destroy a fruit tree. Do you grow any fruit trees here? If so don’t destroy them! What the text says, if you are sieging a city, don’t destroy the fruit trees. The people in the city must not be deprived of their food source. This principle of bal taschit, don’t destroy is then applied to the whole range of environmental justice.

We have an obligation therefore, as part of our covenant to never destroy the world. To do no harm. Like we learned at Girl Scout camp, to leave a place better than we found it. This very world we need to leave better than we found it.

A story from the Talmud as retold by Peninah Schram:
One day, Honi the Circle Maker was walking on the road and saw a man planting a carob tree. Honi asked the man, “How long will it take for this tree to bear fruit?” The man replied, “Seventy years.” Honi then asked the man, “And do you think you will live another seventy years and eat the fruit of this tree?” He answered, “Just as my ancestors planted for me, I must plant for my children and grandchildren.” I tell this story at least once a year. Usually at the Jewish holiday of Tu B’shevat, the New Year of the Trees. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to be back out here for that? Never mind. That’s usually January!

As part of our exploration of covenant this past year, the Hebrew School used the book, A Kid’s Mensch Handbook, A Step by Step Guide to a Lifetime of Jewish Values. Scott Blumenthal argues on the very first page that our actions matter. That if you throw a rock into a pond, a lake, an ocean, there is a ripple effect. Maimonides, centuries earlier make a similar argument…that our individual actions can tip the scale.

Both say that your actions matter. It is like the starfish story that I often retell:

A grandfather and his granddaughter are walking on the beach. Every so often she picks up a starfish and throws it out into the water. He stops her and says, “Why are you doing that? You can’t possible save them all.”

She bends down, picks up another starfish and throws it into the sea, “It makes a difference to this one.” Her grandfather then joins her, hurling starfish back into the sea. (Adapted from the Star Thrower by Loren C. Eiseley)

At Girl Scout Camp, we learned graces, prayers that were said before meals to thank G-d for the bounty of the earth. My favorite was one that goes like this:

“Back of the bread is the flour and back of the flour is the mill and back of the mill is the wind and the rain and the father’s will.”

What we learn from these stories is that the Father’s will, is not enough. It has to be G-d together with us, committed to being partners and co-creators in a covenantal relationship that will help save this precious Creation.

But perhaps the song I should leave you with is one written by Hannah Shenesh. Hannah lived on a kibbutz near Caesaria. She was a poet and she was a paratrooper. During WWII she was parachuted behind enemy lines in Hungary where she was captured and murdered in Auschwitz. This is her song,

Eli Eli
Shelo v’gamer l’olam
Hachol v’hayam
Rishrush shel hamayim
Barak hashamayim
Tefilat ha’adam

Oh Lord, my G-d
I pray that these things never end
The sand and the sea
The rush of the water
The crash of the heavens
The prayer of the heart.

Together, as part of our covenant with G-d, we can make that so. We must. It is part of our covenantal relationship. You can make that difference. You can tip the scale. Amen!

10 Ways You Can Help the Planet: The Ripple Effect

1. Use less water. Turn off the water while you are brushing your teeth. Fix the leaky toilet or sink. You can save 200 gallons a day. Or try a low flush toilet like they have at the Morton Arboretum. Install a rain barrel as we will here to water the community garden.. Try tap water—or filtered water rather than all the plastic bottles. Wash your clothes in cold water.
2. Leave your car at home. If you can stay off the road just two days a week you can reduce greenhouse gas emissions by an average of 15,90 pounds per year according to the EPA. So combine your errands. It will save gas and time.
3. Walk or ride your bike to work. Do what Pastor Katie from Highland Avenue Church of the Brethren does. Bike. All over town. Great for health as you burn some calories. If you can’t walk or ride (or run)—try mass transit or carpooling. One of the great things about Elgin is the Metra—quick and easy way to get into Chicago and now the Pace Bus over at Jane Addams. Also the series of bike trails. Try the one along the river.
4. It reduces pollution just by remembering to put the bottle or can in the recycling bin. Here at CKI we have single stream recycling—and we have bins in the office and the kitchen.
5. We used to have compost here at CKI. It would be great to start up again as a way to feed our community garden and keep additional “trash” out of our landfill.
6. Look up. The lights above you are now LEDs, using on average 2/3rds less energy. Our newest appliances at CKI are Energy Star rated. Energy Star estimates that since December 2013 it has helped families and businesses save $295 billion on utility bills and prevented more that 2.3 billion tons of greenhouse gas emissions from being released in the past two decades. My dream is to one day have a solar ner tamid, our Eternal Light. My teacher Rabbi Everett Gendler, installed and dedicated the first solar ner tamid in 1978 at Temple Emanuel of the Merrimack Valley. The sun is eternal—or at least we think. This is an important symbolic act—because our actions matter.
7. Make your home—and CKI—more energy efficient. It saves money. Clean your air filter. Get a programmable thermostat—as CKI has already done. Reduce the temperature when you are sleeping.
8. Maintain your car. Underinflated tires decrease fuel economy and increase air pollution. And underinflation increases tire wear, so you will save money—on gas and new tires. While you are at it:
9. Drive smarter. Drive slower. Save more gas. Save more money.
10. Turn off lights when you are not in the room and unplug appliances when you are not using them.

https://science.howstuffworks.com/environmental/green-science/save-earth-top-ten1.htm

Sometimes my congregation wonders when personal time and work time differ. Sometimes it isn’t clear. Sometimes I do things that are “rabbinic” for the greater good or because as a rabbi I am asked to do so, I feel called to. This is one of those weekends.

Tisha B’av is the saddest day on the Jewish calendar. We mourn the destruction of both Holy Temples, the expulsion of the Jews from England and then from Spain. Personally I mourn the death of my mother-in-law which also occurred on Tisha B’av.

Traditionally this is a day marked with fasting, not wearing leather, singing dirges in low tones on low stools. Since the founding of the State of Israel, some of that has seemed less mournful. Sometimes there are other things we also mourn: the Holocaust, Hiroshima and Nagasaki, climate change, various incursions and intifadas in modern day Israel. Some years I think why are we still mourning; it has no relevance. Then every year there is something that makes me continue the tradition.

This is one of those years.

Part One:
Shabbat suspends the 3 weeks of mourning. Nonetheless the Shabbat before Tisha B’av is called Shabbat Hazon, the Sabbath of Vision. This past week we saw the mass shootings in El Paso and Dayton, 7 killed and 46 wounded in Chicago and the first and I hope only murder of the year in Elgin. How could I not, as we move into Tisha B’av, as we read the words of Isaiah, talk about violence.

Part Two:
My husband and I attended a service at a neighboring synagogue. The premise was to read parts of the Book of Eicha and then a discussion group of “From Victimhood to Victory: The Dilemma of Suffering and Forgiveness.” It was a rich evening of exploring how working the 12 Step Program from Alcoholic Anonymous can help people overcome personal trauma and not feel like a victim.

Part Three:
I was asked to preach at Rogation Sunday, a Sunday in the Episcopal Church set aside to bless the soil, water and seeds. In some places you actually bless the tractors. The priest, Don Frye, a good friend wanted me to talk about our connection to the land and our responsibility as caretakers of Creation to partner with G-d to live out the covenant. Many have made the connection between climate change, the burning up of the earth and mourning for those Temples that burned. I was happy, yes, even on Tisha B’av, to bring a message of covenant, partnership and responsibility. It was a very meaningful morning. (And I am very appreciative of the daisy plant I received since Margaret means daisy pearl.)

Part Four:
My husband came to me sometime last week and asked if I knew about this event in Kankakee about refugees and Tisha B’av. It seemed like the appropriate way to mark his mother’s yahrzeit since his mother had done so much around refugee resettlement. In fact all of the Kleins have, coming out of our uniquely Jewish experience. I tried not to laugh. I was on the planning committee and had a small speaking part. Because really, where else would I be on Tisha B’av, a holiday dedicated to mourning how we as a people became exiled.

Turns out Kankakee is further than we thought and we were late. But we ran into lots of friends and colleagues from the wider Jewish community. There were tears as stories were told of unspeakable tragedies forcing other immigrants to leave their countries, the homelands, the land of their birth, the parents home (hear the echoes of Abraham and Sarah? It was deliberate!) and came to this country some of who have faced unspeakable tragedies here. But speak them we must. I hear the most haunting was Rabbi Maralee Gordon chanting some of those stories in Eicha trope.

I spoke briefly. Said that my family has worked on refugee resettlement for decades and that I have a Guatemalan son-in-law that was airlifted off a football field in 1983 and a Cambodian nephew rescued from the killing fields. They are both American citizens now. And they are the lucky ones.

For me, the most uplifting and affirming was singing Hashiveinu which comes out of Eicha/Lamentations and is central to the Torah service and to the High Holiday liturgy.

Turn us back, turn us back, O LORD to You
and we will return,
renew, renew our days as before.

Then I blew shofar with four other shofar blowers.

That’s the spirit in which I return from Kankakee, ready to prepare for the High Holidays. (In truth that preparation is already underway, way underway.)

We turn now to Tu B’av and are reminded that the solution of sinat chinam, baseless hatred is ahavat chinam, baseless love. Love your neighbor as yourself. Love the sojourner. Don’t stand idly by while your neighbor bleeds. Love.

(The words of this weekend’s d’vrei Torah will be available shortly. But first rest.)

Today we were treated to an example of leadership. Leadership by example. Today I helped celebrate a Bar Mitzvah of a special young man. He chose as his project to host a soccer scrimmage game for an organization called Soccer for Peace. And then he role modeled that peace. For Ein Keholenu he taught one of his teammates the Hebrew words and they led it together. For Adon Olam, he taught one of his teammates the Hebrew words and they led it together. A Jewish American Mongolian Bar Mitzvah and an Indian American. A Jewish American Mongolian Bar Mitzvah and a Latino. Peace through prayer. Peace through soccer. For one shining moment.

We talked extensively about “Love your neighbor as yourself,” as we plan for National Night Out. As we “borrow” our neighbors’ church parking lots and the funeral home’s lot across the street.

While we were singing, there was another mass shooting. This time at a WalMart in El Paso. I’ve been to a Bnei Mitzvah at the synagogue in El Paso. My twin niece and nephew. That was a day of peace too. I know the rabbi in El Paso. He has done a lot of research and work with “hidden Jews”, the descendants of Jews who came to the New World escaping the Spanish Inquisition. Every year, in a community that is 47% Hispanic, someone sits in my office and tells me they think they might be Jewish because their grandmother lights candles on Friday night or they fast on one special day in September or they never eat pork. And I think of Rabbi Stephen Leon.

I know the rabbi in Las Cruces, Rabbi Larry Karol from when he was the rabbi in Dover, NH. He was only 48 miles away from the shooting. He was worked extensively with refugees and asylum seekers. In Las Cruces and in Dover.

I spoke words this morning about the connection between peace and land. I even told a Mongolian coming of age story. You see, this morning’s Bar Mitzvah is the child of a mother born in Mongolia and a father from Long Island. Her father came to the United States, like many to follow the American dream.

What I didn’t talk about, choosing instead to celebrate this young man, was the idea of sanctuary cities. I have spoken about them before. How we need to have one law for citizen and sojourner alike. How we need to protect the widow, the orphan and the stranger. All of that was in today’s Torah portion. Instead, I talked about inheritance. The Torah is his inheritance. However his words and his actions give me hope on a very dark day.

My remarks:

Take a deep breath. Look around. Smile. You did it…but that was never in doubt, was it?

Your Torah portion, was you’ve just taught us, is about the daughters of Zelophefad. Now Zelophad had no sons, and back in the day, his land would just revert to common property. No one to inherit, right?

Wrong. The daughters of Zelophefed stood up for themselves. Spoke out to Moses who then questioned G-d and the daughters inherited their father’s land.

Today is about your inheritance. When we passed down the Torah to you, from generation to generation, you received an inheritance. You are a link in that chain. When we practiced that on Thursday, there were tears from your grand parents. I can’t say for certain, but I imagine that those were tears of joy and pride, naches in Yiddish. I know that you are the only grandchild who had a Bar or Bat Mitzvah and you then have become that chain.

When Israel stood to receive the Torah, the Holy One said to them: “I am prepared to give you My Torah. Present to Me good guarantors that you will observe and study the Torah and I shall give it to you.”

They said: “Our ancestors are our guarantors.”

The Holy One said: “Your ancestors are not sufficient guarantors. Bring Me good guarantors, and I shall give you the Torah.”

They said: “Our prophets are our guarantors.”

The Holy One said: “The prophets are not sufficient guarantors. Bring Me good guarantors and I shall give you the Torah.”

They said: “Indeed, our children will be our guarantors.”

The Holy One said: “Your children are good guarantors. For their sake I give the Torah to you.”

You are that guarantor.

I often tell another the story, that of Honi the Circle Drawer. Peninah Schram tells it this way:

“Honi the Wise One was also known as Honi the Circle Maker. By drawing a circle and stepping inside of it, he would recite special prayers for rain, sometimes even argue with God during a drought, and the rains would come. He was, indeed, a miracle maker. As wise as he was, Honi sometimes saw something that puzzled him. Then he would ask questions so he could unravel the mystery. One day, Honi the Circle Maker was walking on the road and saw a man planting a carob tree. Honi asked the man, “How long will it take for this tree to bear fruit?” The man replied, “Seventy years.” Honi then asked the man, “And do you think you will live another seventy years and eat the fruit of this tree?”

The man answered, “Perhaps not. However, when I was born into this world, I found many carob trees planted by my father and grandfather. Just as they planted trees for me, I am planting trees for my children and grandchildren so they will be able to eat the fruit of these trees.”

You are the inheritor of two traditions…there is a lovely little book, The Blue Sky, about the coming of age of a little (the book doesn’t say how little) boy born in Mongolia. Tucked high in the Altai Mountains, the nomadic Tuvan people’s ancient way of life is colliding with modernity. Sound familiar? The young Sheppard boy, Dshurukuwaa (I can’t pronounce his name either, Yuna!) goes through a coming of age challenge. His older siblings leave the family yurt to attend boarding school. His grandmother dies and they lose the connection to the ancient traditions and their deep relationship with the land. And then his dog dies, what he believed was “all that was left to him.” The boy keeps asking despairing questions, like why is this happening to me. And the Heavenly Blue Sky only answers in the silence of the wind.

That is either very Buddhist or very Jewish. Or both. My father used to say that a good Jew is someone who questions, thinks and argues. Keep asking those deep questions and listening for the answers and making them your own.

These were a nomadic people. People who wandered. Not in the desert like the Israelites, but wandered in the mountains. Today you completed reading the Book of Numbers, Bamidbar, in the wilderness. On the land. Soon, in our sacred story telling, the Israelites wandering will be over. But that wandering brought the Israelites closer together and gave them strength! It taught them and unified their traditions which became their inheritance.

When you play soccer under a deep blue sky, you have a connection to the land, as you run up and down the field. That connection to your teammates, and the land and your love of the game, led you to explore Soccer for Peace, an organization that promotes peace in the Middle East by allowing boys and girls to play soccer in war torn towns. Places where they are fighting over the land. Who owns it? Who gets to inherit it? Even who gets to play soccer on it.

Wednesday night, I encourage any of you to come out to play soccer, even if you’ve never played before. We’ll just have fun kicking a ball around. No headers though—we don’t need any more concussions!

The Torah is your inheritance—and you are our guarantor.

Brandon, you have a deep connection to your people. You have a deep connection to the land and to soccer and to your friends. Like Honi and the little boy in Mongolia, you ask deep questions. Keep asking those questions, Keep listening for those answers.

Last week I didn’t think my Torah discussion went well. Every now and then it just doesn’t flow.

This week we are going to continue our discussion of haftarah and prophesy. During the discussion, one of you asked a really important question. How do we recognize a prophet—as opposed to maybe a quack. And while there is a history of false prophets, distinguishing that voice can be difficult.

Distinguishing that voice is important. Later in the week I saw a quote about if the voice is telling you to champion the widow, the orphan, the stranger, then it is real. Otherwise, it is false. I went back to the person and got the original source:

“Sometimes in history the name of God has been invoked on behalf of actions and movements that have ennobled the human soul and lifted the body politic to a higher plane. Take the Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr., and the American civil rights movement, or Archbishop Desmond Tutu and the struggle against South African apartheid, as examples. Other times religious fervor has been employed for the worst kinds of sectarian and violent purposes. The Ku Klux Klan, the troubles in Northern Ireland, the wars in the former Yugoslavia, and David Koresh’s Branch Davidian standoff in Waco, Texas, are frightening examples.

Is there a reliable guide to when we are really hearing the voice of God, or just a self-interested or even quite ungodly voice in the language of heaven? I think there is. Who speaks for God? When the voice of God is invoked on behalf of those who have no voice, it is time to listen. But when the name of God is used to benefit the interests of those who are speaking, it is time to be very careful.”
― Jim Wallis, Who Speaks for God?

That is one answer. A prophet is someone who speaks out for the marginalized. The widow, the orphan, the stranger.

A few months ago, in a class on “Finding Meaning” one member of the class objected to a reading by Lord Rabbi Sacks, the Chief Rabbi Emeritus of Great Britain who talked about teaching as a calling. This former teacher had never thought of teaching that way and didn’t think that Jews used that term. It led to an interesting conversation about whether the pastor across the street is called and whether I as a rabbi am called.

This week we read about Jeremiah beginning with Jeremiah’s call. Jeremiah was a historical figure. One of the reasons we know he was real, is that we have found the seal of Baruch, Jeremiah’s scribe. Now some have argued that it is a fake…and you are welcome to read all that material online, but if you conclude that you are arguing with the chief archeologist of Israel, a professor at Tel Aviv University and the Israel Museum where it is displayed. Me, I find the seal, called a bulla, thrilling.

We have a timeline. In 627 BCE Jeremiah received his call. In 622 Jeremiah explained the covenant and the Israelites obligations. In 609 Jeremiah proclaimed that the covenant was indeed broken and that dire things were about to happen if the Israelites didn’t “return”, perform teshuvah. And, he was there to witness the fall of Jerusalem, just as he predicted in 586 BCE.

The history fascinates me, but what do we mean when we say some one like Jeremiah is called?

During the discussion there were a number of answers, ranging from everyone has gifts to share and that is their calling. No one is really called. A sense of the difference between being compelled or being obligated to do something. It is that sense you can’t do anything else. (I joked about second career rabbis!) But maybe that word should be impelled and that it is the difference between an external driver and an internal driver. And one person who explained that scientists who warn about climate change might be the modern day prophets, scientifically based. It was a very rich discussion. It is actually the kind of moment that thrills me as a rabbi and brings joy. And it mirrored some of the other material I had studied for the purpose of this very discussion:

The sense of call is, in fact, very Jewish, Biblical, but we have often surrendered that language to Christians. When I was applying to rabbinical school people actually warned me NOT to use the language of call because I should sound too Christian or too crazy, even if I had that internal sense.

Yet the very beginning of the Book of Leviticus, Vayikra is Hebrew means, “And G-d called.” That’s what Vayikra means. It is important to note that in every Torah scroll the last letter of Vayikra, aleph is written smaller than the other letters. Every single scroll. Why a little aleph?

Now aleph is a silent letter. It is almost impossible to hear the silent sound of aleph. Rabbi Larry Kushner tells a wonderful midrash in his book, The Book of Miracles, where he explains that the Aleph is what enables us to have a conversation. The commentary on Vayikra however, the sages teach us that the word can either mean “He encountered or he chanced upon,” or “And he called.” Rabbi Sacks, continuing our discussion from last week, says, “What is the difference between the prophets of Israel and the prophets of the pagan nations of the world? . . . R. Hama ben Hanina said: The Holy One blessed be He reveals himself to the pagan nations by an incomplete form of address, as it is said, “And the Lord appeared to Bilaam”, whereas to the prophets of Israel He appears in a complete form of address, as it is said, “And He called to Moses.”

So the question becomes, if prophecy ceased with Ezra and Nehemiah as we talked about last week, can we hear G-d’s voice today?

Psalm 29 talks about G-d’s powerful voice 7 times. We know that song…Kol Adonai. We sing it on Friday night and as part of the Torah service. This is G-d’s booming voice thundering above all, shattering cedars and splitting rocks. We also have “bat kol” in the Talmud, the voice of G-d swooping down in some kind of “deus ex machina” manner.

On the other hand, we have Elijah’s notion of the still, small voice, something internal, eternal, something inside of us.

This seems to be echoed in the words of Jeremiah’s call:
“Before I created you in the womb, I selected you; Before you were born, I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet concerning the nations.” Jeremiah 1

Which seems to be echoed in Psalm 139:
“You shaped me inside and out. You have made my veins; You have knit me together in my mother’s

Sometimes people have the sense that there is something G-d wants them to do. That they were fortunate to be born with certain intrinsic traits. I have used this following quote so often, it may be familiar to many of you. Frederick Buechner talks about call this way: “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”

However Lord Rabbi Sacks points out that there is a difference between vocation and gift. You can be a gifted pianist but that isn’t necessarily what you are called to do. He goes on to talk about Viktor Frankl, the therapist that survived Auschwitz by searching for meaning. As Sacks explains, “There in the camp he dedicated himself to giving people the will to live. He did so by getting them to see that their lives were not finished, that they still had a task to perform, and that therefore they had a reason to survive until the war was over. Frankl insisted that the call came from outside the self. He used to say that the right question was not “What do I want from life?” but “What does life want from me?

What does life want from me? Figuring out the answer to that is figuring out what your unique call might be.

Rabbi Amy Eilberg, the first woman Conservative Rabbi talks about call in these terms:

“You have to look more closely to find the individual sense of mission or calling in the Jewish texts, but it is there. One example from the Hasidic mystical tradition is the concept of shlichut, which means agency or mission, from the word “to send.” The language of sending in the book of Isaiah says to God, “Here I am. Send me.” So this language speaks to each person having a particular shlichut of something that they’re sent toward.”

Rabbi Michael Strassfeld the author of the Jewish Catalog, and one of the founders of Jewish Renewal said this:
“Though work is our vocation, it has the potential to accomplish tikkun olam, “repair of the world.” Every job, every work interaction has value. There are those who believe that each of us is chosen for a particular task to perform in the world. Rav Zutra said: What is the meaning of this verse: ‘God made everything beautiful in its time’ (Ecclesiastes 3:11)? This teaches that the Holy One made everyone’s craft appear beautiful in their eyes” (Babylonian Talmud, Berakhot 58a).

Rabbi Jeffrey Salkin, a Reform rabbi who wrote Putting G-d of the Guest List for Bar Mitzvah families wrote Being G-d’s Partner, the What Color is Your Parachute for Jews. It is the book that if I loan it out, it won’t come back. He tells an important, poignant story, especially today as Simon and I are in the middle of a move:

“The boss of the moving crew was a delightful, crusty gentleman, a dead ringer for Willie Nelson. I had never met anyone so enthusiastic about his or her work, and I asked him the source of that enthusiasm.

“‘Well, you see, I’m a religious man,’ he answered, ‘and my work is part of my religious mission.’

“‘What do you mean?’ I asked.

“‘Well, its like this. Moving is hard for most people. It’s a very vulnerable time for them. People are nervous about going to a new community, and about having strangers pack their most precious possessions. So, I think God wants me to treat my customers with love and to make them feel that I care about their things and their life. God wants me to help make their changes go smoothly. If I can be happy about it, maybe they can be, too’”

There you have it…a sense of call from Orthodox, Reform, Conservative and Jewish Renewal rabbis. That’s good for our vision of “Embracing Diversity.”

Clearly some of calling or vocation is about your work identity. But what if you are no longer working? What if you have retired? What happens now?

The Talmud teaches us that it is necessary to balance work and Torah study (Pirke Avot). But perhaps, just perhaps, retirement is a kind of Shabbat, which is also a calling. We are called to rest. We are called to observe Shabbat. That is an entire sermon in itself.

In another important book, Wise Aging, by Rachel Cowen, z’l, she reminds us that each of us has a purpose. Perhaps then purpose = calling.

Frankl believed that “Every human person constitutes something unique; each situation in life occurs only once. The concrete task of any person is relative to this uniqueness and singularity.”[5] The essence of the task, he argued, is that it is self-transcending. It comes from outside the self and challenges us to live beyond mere self-interest. To discover such a task is to find that life – my life – has meaning and purpose.

Our challenge then:
What is that one task you are uniquely here to do?

Have you ever looked up at the moon? Really, really looked. Look up tonight and be amazed. Once, exactly 50 years ago today, a man walked on the moon.

At services today, we had Oreo cookies, made just for this moment, and used a  milk glass from that day when “the eagle has landed.” Many of us gathered today remember exactly where we were and with whom. One said it was the best family time they ever spent.

“One small step for mankind. One giant leap for mankind.”

What is our fascination with the moon? It is beautiful. It waxes and wanes. As Jews, our calendar is a modified lunar calendar. Women celebrated each Rosh Hodesh, the beginning of a new month when just a sliver becomes visible again. It brings with it hope and renewal. Many of our holidays are full moon holidays. Sukkot, Tu B’shevat, Purim, Passover, all begin when the moon is full.

The LORD said to Moses, “Put Aaron’s staff back before the Pact, to be kept as a lesson to rebels, so that their mutterings against Me may cease, lest they die.”

Korach challenged Moses’s leadership, and by extension G-d. Korach and his followers.

Our text picks up just after the rebellion. After G-d smote Korach and his followers. What is going on here?

When is rebellion OK and when is it not?

This is a weekend we celebrate another rebellion. The American Revolution. The idea that a band of rebels, the Sons of Liberty, would rise up and declare independence from England. That they would reject a king’s rule.

What is the difference between what the early American patriots, you know their names…People like Sam Adams, John Adams, and Abigail, Paul Revere, Benjamin Franklin, John Hancock, Thomas Jefferson did. Even Dickinson who rebelled in a different way, what they did and what Korach did?

Korach did it not for the people but because he felt he would be a better leader than Moses. He was ego driven. It was about him. He did not have the best interests of the people at heart.

Now it is true that in order to be a leader you need a certain amount of ego. But ego-driven leadership is something that the business community riles against.

http://themojocompany.com/2014/01/10-traits-of-ego-driven-leaders/#sthash.paOQmJLD.dpbs

1. Often measure their success by how much others notice their success. It becomes more about being the center of attention than it does about actually being successful in and of itself.
2. Often feel better about themselves when others around them don’t achieve or earn as much as they do.
3. Tend to undermine othersso that they can appear to themselves and others to be smarter, better, etc.
4. Tend to drive others away over time. It’s incredibly taxing working for an ego-driven leader, because…
5. Tend to destroy trustand attempt to control others through whatever means necessary. This is exhausting for those who work with these leaders.
6. Are always looking for more praise, always looking for the next spotlight.
7. Status supplants service as the true, underlying motivator.
8. Tend to be easily offended, even if their own behavior toward others is far more egregious. They’re quick to call others defensive, and quick to point out what they perceive to be faulty attitudes in others.
9. Tend to have a burning desire to be right. Every. Single. Time. Or so it seems to those around them.
10. Very rarely admit their faults without somehow rationalizing or blaming others.

http://themojocompany.com/2014/01/10-traits-of-ego-driven-leaders/#sthash.paOQmJLD.dpbs

We’ve probably all worked for this kind of leader, sometime in our careers. It isn’t fun. And Korach was dangerous. The proof that is offered of is how many were killed as part of the rebellion.

On the other hand, Moses, was humble. We looked at that recently. “Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth.” (Numbers 12:1)

“And there has not arisen a prophet since in Israel like Moses, whom the LORD knew face to face,” Deuteronomy 34:10

We know from this that Moses was humble, very humble and had a unique ability to communicate. He wasn’t perfect. Perfection isn’t the goal. These are important qualities in a leader.

Aaron was a communicator too. He was the mouthpiece of Moses in Egypt. He was a man of peace as Pirke Avot tells us, “Hillel would say: Be of the disciples of Aaron – a lover of peace, a pursuer of peace …” (Pirkei Avot 1:12).

Why? He kept his peace when his sons were killed, seemingly zapped. He made peace by facilitating the building of the Golden Calf. He did not participate in the gossip about Moses that caused Miriam to be punished.

The commentaries explain how Aaron is a rodef shalom, a pursuer of peace:

“Two people were having a quarrel. Aaron went and sat with one of the disputants and said to him, ‘My son, look what your friend is saying; he is distraught and is tearing his clothing.’ The disputant says, ‘Woe to me! How can I look at my friend and see his shame as I am the one who has wronged him.’ …” (and Aaron is doing the same with the other disputant) “When the two met each other, they hugged and kissed in reconciliation” (Avot D’Rabbi Natan, version A, chapter 12).

To pursue is usually a verb related to waging war. The Torah is setting up a different model of leadership. One where leaders pursue justice, as it says “Justice, Justice shall you pursue.” And “Seek peace and pursue it.” It is not, as some suggested a weak form of leadership. It is the very measure of strength.

That is part of what we are celebrating this weekend. Compare Korach’s ego driven leadership with the words of the Declaration of Independence, the very document we are celebrating:

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal. That they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these rights are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”

All the people, however that is defined and that is the subject of much debate, all the people are created b’tzelem elohim, in the image of G-d and as such have rights.

George Washington understood this so very well when he was writing to the Jewish Community of Newport RI.

Gentlemen:

While I received with much satisfaction your address replete with expressions of esteem, I rejoice in the opportunity of assuring you that I shall always retain grateful remembrance of the cordial welcome I experienced on my visit to Newport from all classes of citizens.

The reflection on the days of difficulty and danger which are past is rendered the more sweet from a consciousness that they are succeeded by days of uncommon prosperity and security.

If we have wisdom to make the best use of the advantages with which we are now favored, we cannot fail, under the just administration of a good government, to become a great and happy people.

The citizens of the United States of America have a right to applaud themselves for having given to mankind examples of an enlarged and liberal policy—a policy worthy of imitation. All possess alike liberty of conscience and immunities of citizenship.

It is now no more that toleration is spoken of as if it were the indulgence of one class of people that another enjoyed the exercise of their inherent natural rights, for, happily, the Government of the United States, which gives to bigotry no sanction, to persecution no assistance, requires only that they who live under its protection should demean themselves as good citizens in giving it on all occasions their effectual support.

It would be inconsistent with the frankness of my character not to avow that I am pleased with your favorable opinion of my administration and fervent wishes for my felicity…G. Washington

https://www.tourosynagogue.org/history-learning/gw-letter

May there come a time when we are not so ego-driven as Korach, where we are as humble as Moses and pursuers of peace as Aaron. Then as Isaiah and G. Washington himself suggested at the conclusion of his letter,” may all the children of the stock of Abraham who dwell in this land continue to merit and enjoy the good will of the other inhabitants—while every one shall sit in safety under his own vine and fig tree and there shall be none to make him afraid.”

Later in the morning, during the usual time for the prayer for our country, we read the prayer written by the Jewish community of Richmond, VA. This prayer fascinates me because it is an acrostic spelling out G. Washington’s name. It is also fascinating because of the number of names of G-d it uses. It maybe the very prayer I use at City Council when I do the invocation on Wednesday night. I am always amazed that we Jews have garnered enough respect in this country, with the vision no less of Washington himself, that rabbis like me are called in to do such invocations.

Prayer for the Government in honor of George Washington, First President of the United States of America by K.K. Beit Shalome (1789)

Friday night I attended a Lights of Liberty event. There was a lot of online rabbinic chatter about how to do this and still observe Shabbat. I chose to go by hosting Shabbat dinner for some friends and then we all went. The event was scheduled in Elgin between 7 and 8 and before candlelighting at 8:11. There was opportunity for teaching about this important topic, some laughter and since my congregation has no formal services on Friday in the summer, a chance to host Shabbat dinner, something my husband and I miss in the summer.

The event itself was important. It filled Christ the Lord Lutheran Church. The pastor there talked about Jesus as a refugee and what happened when his church in Manhattan put up a sign that said Immigrants Welcome. It was smeared with as he put it crap. But Jesus, born in a manger, was used to crap. Jesus taught us to “Love our neighbors as ourselves and to welcome the stranger. Jesus taught us to feed the stranger and offer drink to the thirsty. To everyone. There were remarks from other clergy. The singing of This Land is Your Land and We Shall Overcome. We were assured by the mayor of Elgin that we will not help ICE if they come to Elgin. That he has directed the police to protect the rights of residents and not to help ICE. The powerful remarks of the executive director of Women on the Border. And the haunting, first hand accounts of children separated from their parents, telling horrific first hand accounts of deplorable conditions. I didn’t know if I was listening to stories of children at Terezin from the book, “I never saw another butterfly” or current stories here.

People wanted a copy of my remarks, some of which are repeated from a recent sermon:

You might think that the scarf I am wearing is my prayer shawl, my tallit, or a symbol of pride. It actually is neither. I chose to wear this tonight because I purchased it in Guatemala, when I was there as a Global Justice Fellow with American Jewish World Service. My Kippah, is also from Guatemala. One of the most remarkable memories of that trip was the statue to their hero, the migrant who has made it to the United States and sends back money to their relatives left behind.

I have a Guatemalan son-in-law who in 1983 was airlifted off a football field in Guatemala City in 1983, when the violence in Guatemala was unspeakable and people were being “disappeared”. That is a euphemism for kidnapped and killed. No, murdered.

I have a nephew, who my brother-in-law and sister-in-law rescued from the Killing Fields of Cambodia. He is now an American citizen with an electrical engineering degree from the University of Arizona, married to an Israeli and working for the US Navy.

They are the lucky ones. They made it here and have “made it in America”. Exactly the kind of citizens we want in this country. I often hear about the “rule of law” and that we in America need to uphold the “rule of law”. That’s why we need to separate these illegal children and that’s why we need to deport these people. Let me be clear. We in the United States are not upholding our own law. And no person is illegal.

Let me tell you another story: The story of Greta. Greta was a teenager when she arrived in Saint Louis and was rescued by my mother’s own family: My mother’s own words, “My first recollection of Greta Westerfeld was her German accent and her long braids. She was the first of the children sent for safety in St. Louis to escape the War in Europe. I imagine she was terrified. She came to live with the Friedmans who were not related and a middle-aged childless couple. When they took her to my stepfather, the pediatrician, he said, “I have a kid her age. We must get them together.” The Friedmans didn’t know much about ten year olds, but always made me feel welcome in their house…At first Greta was very shy. And even her clothes were different. She word dark skirts with white blouses and long wool stockings. I guess my mother helped Mrs. Friedman buy American clothes like the other kids wore. Greta went to our school, joined our Girl Scout troop, went camping with us and became part of the group. We all knew she worried about her family who were still in Germany and dreaded their fate.”

Often times I hear people say, “We didn’t know what was happening in Europe during the war.” The Jewish community of Saint Louis in the 30s and 40s certainly knew what was happening in Europe, and tried, despite closed borders, to desperately rescue as many people as possible. Greta’s family did not survive. Greta eventually married and moved to New Jersey to begin her new life. What my mother doesn’t say in her account that I remember so vividly. She died in the late 1960s. Much like in the novel Sarah’s Key, some said of a broken heart. That’s a euphemism. Let’s be clear. All those years later, she killed herself.

My family, because of the Holocaust has worked on refugee issues for decades. We’ve worked as attorneys, immigration judges, real estate agents and/or social workers with the immigrant community, sponsors, foster parents and I did an internship with Refugee Immigration Ministry which works with asylum seekers in Massachusetts. As part of that internship we fought against for profit jails. That was 2001. Jails that were housing children. That was a year we all remember. On the Friday after 9/11, at our weekly staff meeting the executive director said that our clients were now at risk and fearful. If the United States was under attack, they wondered, where else could they run. Haunting.

We’ve done all that because our US borders were not open when Jews in Europe needed it most. The story of the USS Saint Louis haunts us and like Jews everywhere we have vowed to remember, to never forget and to pledge Never Again to anyone anywhere.

None of that matters. Let me be clear. Very, very clear. Our country’s policy on immigration, detention and deportation is wrong. Period. The idea that children are forcibly removed from their parents is unconsciousable. And like Greta likely to cause permanent damage.

The Jewish tradition is clear. 36 times in Torah it tells us to take care of the widow, the orphan, the stranger. The ger in Hebrew, the soujouner, the resident alien, the person who has chosen to join with us. There is to be one law for citizen and sojourner alike. One law. I have the full list of quotes.

But none of that matters. The only thing that matters is that we stop these raids that are supposed to begin this weekend. Now. That we close these detention centers. Now. That we return children who have been separated from their parents. Now. That we uphold US and international law concerning refugees and asylum seekers. That we provide clean, safe water, adequate food, blankets, soap, toothbrushes, and medical attention. Now. Otherwise, we are no better than the repressive regimes we have sent our troops into fight around the world. Otherwise there will be other Gretas and Henrys and Edgars. The time is now.

My tradition is clear. Love your neighbor. Love the stranger. The time is now.

This week we got a notice on the front of our building. It was a boil water notice. We didn’t find it until Friday. But it said we would not have any water until 11Pm on Thursday. However, we knew as soon as the water was turned off. No water to wash hands, to drink on a hot summer’s day or to flush the toilets. It was a water main break. Not the only one in Elgin this week.

As we watched water gushing from a hydrant, I was reminded of the poem:

“Water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink.” Coleridge, Rime of the Ancient Mariner

Water. It is an essential element. H20. We can’t live without it. We were born in it. 60% of our bodies are water. We are told to stay hydrated in the summer especially. Drink your water. TODAY. It will be very hot. They are saying it on all the news.

The recommendation is 64 ounces of water. Pure, clean, water. That’s a gallon. That’s a privilege.

Now imagine not having access to water. Maybe you are wandering in the desert, an ancient Israelite, like in our portion today. Maybe you visiting Israel. Lishdot, Lishdot, Lishdot. Drink, Drink, Drink, the madricim, the tour guides call out. Tepid water out of a hot canteen or a warm plastic bottle is not too appealing. Ice doesn’t exist much in the desert but drink you must. Maybe you live in Tucson, like Simon’s siblings. When we first started visiting them in Tucson, I didn’t like drinking water. But Simon’s mother was insistent. And iced tea doesn’t count.

Maybe you live in Flint. Five years after the crisis began, it may finally be getting better, NPR reports. The last pipe needing replacing has been. But the jury is out on whether the children have been permanently damaged by the lead and the unemployment is still sky high. https://www.npr.org/2019/04/25/717104335/5-years-after-flints-crisis-began-is-the-water-safe

Maybe you live in Guatemala.

Guatemala has been in the news a lot this weekend. Part of the reason we hear about the violence in Guatemala is a fight over land rights and water rights. It is part of what I learned about when I traveled to Guatemala as part of American Jewish World Service. It is part of what I spoke about last night at a Lights of Liberty event.

While Guatemala’s constitution guarantees the right to clean and safe water (The US Constitution does no such thing), Guatemala and El Salvador are the only two Central American countries to not have legislation to protect the right to water access or regulate its use. So big international mining companies come in and prevent access to water by the indigenous people. This causes an increase in violence. It also creates a huge issue with pollution. Lake Atilan, one of the most beautiful places I have ever visited, is one of the most polluted, fresh water lakes. This impacts access to safe drinking water, and threatens the economy of the region.

Under the slogan, “Water is life”, thousands have marched from the border of Mexico to the coast, some 260 miles, to demand that the Guatemalan government protect the right and access to fresh water.

http://upsidedownworld.org/archives/guatemala/water-is-life-guatemalan-march-for-water-rights-connects-struggles-across-latin-america/

Yes, people fight. To the death over water. In Tucson there were two recent trials of people providing water to migrants. Leaving gallon jugs of bottled water out in the hot Sonoran desert sun. In one case, four were convicted in January. In the other, in June, the jury was deadlocked. When did it become a crime to give someone water? How does this fit with our Jewish values?

Yes, people fight. To the death over water. Abraham signed a treaty with Abimelech to guarantee access to wells. Isaac did too. Beersheva either means Seven Wells or Well of Oath, because the treaty was signed there. Water provides more than physical nourishment. It also provides spiritual nourishment. Who has not been refreshed by watching a sunset over a body of water? Wells are also where you might find your soulmate. Hagar found G-d. Rebecca was led to Isaac. Jacob found Rachel and Leah. Moses found Zipporah.

Water is life.

Bottled water may not be. Bottled water actually hurts the environment. The bottlers harm the environment by depleting aquifers and other groundwater sources. They have an impact on the local economies because they pay little, and in some cases nothing for the water they take. They can take the maximum amount they want, without regard for drought or water shortage or regard for the local needs of the people, like we discussed about Guatemala.

Plastic bottles are not sustainable. They require too much fossil fuels to manufacture, fill and ship. Nor are they biodegradable. 6 out of 7 plastic bottles in the US are “downcycled” and not recycled. Some bottled water is merely tap water at 10,000 times the cost. As much as 25% of bottled water may come from the tap. Bottled water may contain mold, microbes, benzene leached from the plastic and even more recently arsenic.

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-11193/7-reasons-to-never-drink-bottled-water-again.html

So what do we do at CKI.? We have taken steps to reduce the numbers of plastic bottles we use here. You have probably noticed the pretty decanters with ice water, usually one plain and one infused with fruit. Drink it. Enjoy it. Drink deeply from it.

Our portion today starts just after the death of Miriam. Miriam, whose name means bitter waters is very much associated with water. We know her as placing Baby Moses in the basket on the Nile, for singing at the shores of the sea and for finding water while the Israelites were wandering in the desert. But then she dies.

“And the children of Israel, the whole congregation, came into the wilderness of Zin on the first new moon and the people dwelled there at Kadesh. And Miriam died there and was buried there. And there was not water for the community and they joined against Moses and Aaron.” (Numbers 20:1-2)

Once Miriam dies, the Israelite can no longer find water. “Spring up O Well.” They sing. Debbie Friedman, z’l gave us a lovely song using this very verse:

Lyrics:
Spring up a well, and sing ye unto it
Spring up a well, and sing ye unto it

CHORUS:
Oh the water in the well and the healing in the well
The women and the water and the hope that’s in the well (x2)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jJXCpEqO54

The verses of Debbie Friedman’s song are actually based on the midrashim about Miriam. They explain that this well, Miriam’s Well, followed the Israelites and provided the water. With her death, the well disappeared. (Ta;anit 9A). Rashi comments, saying that the rock that “Moses struck with his rod, in verse 11, was actually the no longer functional Miriam’s Well. When the Israelites complained, yes, they were kvetching again, that there were “no grain or figs or vines or pomegranates (20:4), they were expressing their profound alarm that the mayyim hayyim, the living waters that had once watered their gardens, herbs, seeds and trees and dried up. (Sefer Ha’Aggadah)

Miriam, and her well, were the source of mayyim hayyim, that living water that we all need to live. That we can still access today, if only we know how to look. Some midrashim teach that Miriam’s Well was as old as the universe, created on the second day (Pirke de-Rabbi Eliezer 3) or on the eve of the very first Shabbat. (Avot 5:6). It may have looked like a beehive. Whenever the Israelites camped, the well rested close by on an elevated spot opposite the entrance to the Tent of Meeting. (Tosefta Sukkah 3:11-13 and Numbers Rabbah 1:2) http://www.jtsa.edu/miriams-legacy-of-leadership

Now let’s go back to the song, because we begin to understand how the water in the well provided hope and healing. For the Israelites and for us today:

When the world was created, there was heaven and dry land
And all the waters gathered, upon hearing God’s command
There was a bit of water, that was left or so they tell,
That was the water that became the water from the well

CHORUS:

It was in Miriam’s honor that the first well came to be,
To celebrate her music, her dance and prophecy,
The people came to Miriam when their spirits rose and fell
She nourished all their visions with the water from the well

CHORUS:

“Spring up a well!” the twelve tribes sang and the rushing waters flowed
High as pillars, into rivers to the oceans they would go
Surrounded by the trees and fruits so rich and bountiful
The Israelites were nourished by the waters from the well

CHORUS:

When Miriam dried, the well dried up, and Moses’ shed his tears
And God said, “Moses, touch this rock and water will appear”
Well Moses raised his staff in anger and upon the rock it fell
And out came springs of water, it was water from the well
CHORUS:

Bridge:
For the memory of the women, for the memory of the well
For the ones who came before us, their stories we must tell
We are searching for the water, where we wander, where we dwell
For Miriam and all of us, who thirst to find the well

CHORUS:

This is Miriam’s Cup, Kos Miriyam that many people have taken since the 70s to adding to their seder tables. This is how new liturgy is born. Recognizing the real role that Miriyam and her leadership played in allowing the Israelites to flee Egypt. Her rescuing Moses, her teaching the women to celebrate at the shores of the sea and her finding water in the wilderness, offering all of us hope.

This Kos Miriyam one that I purchased in Riverdale, NY with my chevruta partner, Rabbi Linda Shriner Cahn.

Because this is a “new custom” there is no fixed blessing yet. Let’s try this:

Zot Kos Miryam, Kos Mayyim Hayyim. 
Zakheir l’tzi-at Mitzrayim.

This is the Cup of Miriam, the Cup of Living Waters.
Let us remember our going out from Egypt.

Barukh Atah Adonay, Eloheynu Melekh ha-Olam, she-ha-kol n’hi-ye bi-d’varo

Blessed are You Lordh our God, Ruler of the Universe, Creator of Time and Space, by Whose word everything is created.

And remember, this day and every day, drink your water. And fight so that all people have access to water. Water is life.