Our next guest blogger, John Dalton, is one of the circuit judges in the 15^th Circuit Court in Illinois. He is bright, witty, passionate and committed to making the world a better place. He finds time to mentor and to sponsor confirmation students at his church. He relaxes with a good cigar and wonderful parties at this home. Here are his words:

I don’t know that I can define happiness or explain what is necessary or sufficient for its creation and maintenance for anyone other than myself.

I am an optimist by nature, value human relationships above all else and believe in the inherent goodness of most others. Accordingly, after one’s most basic needs are met (food, clothing, shelter), I believe it should generally be easy to find happiness.

I believe we all have the choice, from moment to moment, day by day, to choose to be happy. I simply cannot comprehend choosing another mental state when happiness is an option.

When confronted by setbacks or obstacles we can consider it merely an invigorating challenge. When limited by illness or or other conditions, we can focus on our remaining abilities or future prognosis.

I have worked hard to meet my goals, often for years at a time. I’ve struggled. I’ve lost. But I don’t think I’ve ever felt sorry for myself or depressed for more than a day or two. More than that seems like a self indulgent waste of time to me, and I abhor waste.

I suspect many would view this as too simplistic to be useful to them in their lives, but on any given day, this philosophy has allowed me to enjoy each day as it came, reasonably content and counting my blessings whilst continuing to strive for my remaining unmet objectives with confidence they could eventually be achieved.

I hope you and your congregation enjoy a meaningful and happy celebration of the high holidays, and that all among you find peace, joy and contentment today and every day.

John G Dalton
Circuit Court Judge